Cancer And The Family Tips To Help Children Cope (NAPSA)—This year, cancer will affect millions of families. For families with young children, such devastating news can leave children feeling frightened or confused. People Living With Cancer, the patient Web site of the American Society of Clinical Oncology, www.PLWC.org, offers practical advice on how to talk with children and teens about cancer. Here are a few tips to consider when talking to elementary school children. 1. Help Children Feel Safe Most children first experience sickness when they get a cold and are used to hearing adults say they “caught” someoneelse’s sore throat or flu. It is important to explain to children that cancer is not contagious. Assure them that they are safe. 2. Weleome Questions Let children know that all questions are welcome, even if they cannot be answered right away. For children, the amount of information given to them is usu- ally less important than making them feel comfortable with what is being said. 3. Alleviate Worry The younger children are, the more they think the world revolves around them, and the more likely they are to feel responsible for a parent or sibling’s illness. It is important to assure them by saying that noth- ing they or anyoneelse did caused the cancer. 4, Help Children Understand Treatment Children often fear the unknown. Explain the treatment process in a way that is appropriate for their age. Don’t forget that children may confuse the side effects of treatment with symp- toms or signs of the canceritself. Chemotherapy may be interpreted as being bad because it makes a parent ill. Separating the side effects of treatment from the dis- ease itself may also provide some comfort. 5. Seek Support No family should have to face cancer alone. Fortunately, there are many emotional support resources available. Specially trained counselors can help parents discuss cancer with their children. A listing of support organizations that can provide infor- mation and assistance can also be found on www.PLWC.org. Be sure to ask your doctor or nurseto tell you about specific resources available for children at your medical center.
